Saturday, July 21, 2007

We're Back....

Okay just in case any of you are checking in on us, the dry spell has ended! I received my first spanking in a long time this afternoon. Alex bought me this little mini dress thing that I now have to wear for spanking anyhow we are starting off slow so I received a round of hand spanks to warm things up and then 20 with the hairbrush, which of course I had to count out. Boy did I forget that that thing can sting!!!

We are making a commitment to getting back to our DD with a couple added things, first of course it getting back to the "rules", they are on here somewhere I will have to find them again. Second Alex told me that he wants to try a little chastity mixed in, this is on him, not me so I will keep you updated on that and finally he is going to get back to work on quitting smoking and has agreed to start attending church with the little miss and I as a family!!! So you can see we have been up to lots of changes at our place.

Hugs,
Allie

Saturday, June 23, 2007

Guess What???

Hi there,

Well I know I have not been keeping up on this like I should, but life here is still pretty darn busy! Hopefully after next weekend things will slow down. Anyhow, I thought I would put a note out here to let you all know that I'm probably going to have some more to write about after tonight. Alex and I decided it's time to get back to business and we have "scheduled" as he likes to call it a "reset" spanking tonight! He's been telling me for the past couple days that I am going to have a little bottom fire cute huh? and I must say I got a few firmly placed swats this morning before we got out of bed, so Im thinking that the funk is just about over...

Well gotta run things to do! miss all of you guys and I really have to catch up on what you have been up to... Happy Spanking!!!!

Hugs,
Allie

Monday, June 4, 2007

Checking in

Well I thought I best put something out here since its been ages since I've had anything to say! sorry about that. Not much has changed here, we are still working on our non spanking thing I do believe we are getting closer.

Our little miss has taken so to softball that our whole house has revolved around that for the entire month of May and part of June and now she made the all star team so we will be tied up until the first of July!!! we are so proud of her, but man the running around does get a bit much.

On the spanking note, Alex did threaten to paddle me this last weekend, but we just never got around to it, see I told you things were starting to get back to normal a little! We just need to make time to do it.

I hope everyone else is well and having great fun..

Hugs,
Allie

Sunday, May 13, 2007

We're in a Funk....

Well you probably could tell that something is different here on our blog, I have to admit we have fallen into a funk, or a non-spanking block...We were going along pretty well and then we both got sick a couple weeks apart so no spankings took place and that is where we seem to be stuck. I guess we need to set down and talk about it some more and refocus. I dont want to give up on the "DD" again but we just dont seem to be headed the way we were. Any advice you guys could offer would be help, that for sure.

Hopefully we will be back to spanking again soon, we just have to figure out how to get out of our "blahh" space. Otherwise things are good here.. Hope everyone else is having a great spanking time..

Allie

Saturday, May 5, 2007

Spanking

Well I'm being told that I will get a spanking tonight!!! yeah... I know that sounds dumb but I really feel like I need one, Im feeling pretty bitchy and very short tempered, so I'm sure it will help mellow me out and get me focused back to where I need to be. I hope it will be one that starts out a bit slow and works it's way up they are my favorite. I really am not fond of the rapid fire method, it's just too shocking to my behind and seeing that it has not been warmed up in a couple weeks it's likely to get tender pretty quick. I guess that if probably why Alex tends to use the rapid fire method for those dreaded punishments.

Well I'll post more later or tomorrow and let you know how it turned out.

Hugs,
Allie

Thursday, May 3, 2007

Getting back to normal

Well things are getting back to normal here little by little. Alex is feeling much better, thank goodness! and we are adjusting to the ball schedule better. Thankfully we only have 2 games this week.

I did get a couple hard smacks on my behind last night for being a brat, something Im told we will take care of this weekend.. hmmmmm...

Oh and get this, Alex told me my "extra" chore this weekend is going to be cutting out a paddle I designed, I have been tinkering with drawing one here and there so we'll see how that goes. If it turns out well maybe I'll post a picture on here.

Allie

Monday, April 30, 2007

Busy Busy

Well I havent written much on here lately, but life has been so hectic this last week it isn't funny! Between work, and outside commitments there just was not an extra minute to be found.

Hopefully this week will be somewhat better, but I know I have 2 nights of running for sure.

As such there has not been any spanking going on at our place, Alex says I am way overdue since he has not properly spanked me in two weeks!!! So I am sure one good one is coming my way pretty soon, though he woke up this morning not feeling very well I think his allergies are getting to him things here are blooming like crazy and that will do it. So maybe not til the end of the week....

Just wanted to say HI to everyone that reads us and let you know that I will try to be better about posting this week.

Hugs,
Allie

Tuesday, April 24, 2007

Gratitude Tuesday

Hooray its Gratitude Tuesday again! Today is "E" day....

E for Electricity, otherwise we would always be in the dark! hehehe

E for Eggs a versatile quick meal anytime.

E for Entertainment a good way to relax and have some fun.

E for Elephants a majestic animal that can be fun to watch.

E for Everyone who reads and comments on our blog! Thanks for the fun we've had so far.

E for Eyes to see with and Ears to hear with, because without them I would have missed so very much in my life!

E for Easter, one of my favorite times of year.

Well there you go have an "E"xcellent day!!!!!

Hugs,
Allie

Sunday, April 22, 2007

Family Guy




Just gotta love Family guy!!! I think Lois is a total spanko!

Friday, April 20, 2007

a little spanking

Oh before I forget to mention it, we did have a little spanking this week too, I have been behaving a little better this week, I think anyways, Alex did give me a small one last night he said that I had been a bit bossy which equates to disrespect so I went over the sofa arm for a little bun warmer with our new hairbrush.. It was stingy but not too bad.

Some week

Sorry we haven't put much up this week, but it's been such a week. I have been bogged down at work, and then the unthinkable tragedy of Virginia Tech! What a terrible thing, I just don't understand what makes people snap like that and then the copy cat happenings all over the country I find it so unreal... The families who lost dear love one have been in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to be.

As a parent I feel for them so much I can't imagine losing my child anyway, but in such a senseless brutal way is just to much to handle, I pray that they maintain their courage and strength to get them through the next few weeks and know that they are in so many peoples thoughts and prayers and they find comfort in that.

Please take a quiet moment at some point today and say a prayer for the families..

Sunday, April 15, 2007

Punishment accomplished

Last night Alex finally got to issue the punishment that he had planned for Tuesday. I had had plenty of time to think about what I had done wrong, and I had written about how sorry I was on here and also had discussed it with Alex in regard to knowing that it was wrong and disrespectful.

Long story short I was taken to the workshop, he brought along the "wicked trinity" the belt,paddle & bath brush. Alex had been out there before he came and got me so he had it all nice and warm but had also placed one of his stools squarely in the middle of the room, guess for who?? (((g))) I was positioned over said stool and relieved of my pants and panties, then of course the questions started and along with that came the scolding I knew I was going to get and deserved. After he had time to scold me and make me think even more of how awful my mouth had been he started with some slow lighter spanks with the brush to warm things up then moved on with the sounder scolding and firmer spanks with the belt he did quite a few with it, I lost count as the tears were flowing pretty well and then onto the paddle, I am truly starting to hate that darn paddle it lands with such a thud and stings like the dickens, I was crying pretty hard, a good emotional release as I had been dreading saturday for a couple days, he did alternate between the belt and paddle quite a bit and my behind was burning like mad.

I know I deserved this punishment so much as it was terrible of me to yell at him in front of our little miss and terribly disrespectful, I am working very hard to keep my mouth under control and my sore behind today has been a great reminder of how much he is not going to tolerate it. He also told me that if it did not improve quickly that I would be going to the workshop nightly for attitude adjustments for a week and see if that helps to remind me!!! Can you say OUCH..

Note to Alex, I am so sorry I was so very disrespectful to you, I will try much much harder to treat you with the respect you deserve and remember that you are my HOH, Thank you for caring enough to spank me last night. Love Allie

Thursday, April 12, 2007

Update on Trouble again

Well Alex has not gotten around to attitude adjustment. Tuesday night just was way to busy, you know sometimes life just gets in the way. Anyhow, he let me know that I am not off the hook and that Saturday night he and I have an appointment to get things done.

He said to be prepared for a "big time spanking", not like anything I have received before, he is tired of my attitude this week and still pretty peeved about the tussle from the other night! He told me to figure on lots of crying and a very sore bottom YIKES!!! Like I said before I hate having to think about it all the rest of the week. Also he has assigned me 200 lines due to him by saturday and that after the spanking I will be serving 20mins corner time. yuck.

Well gotta run.

Tuesday, April 10, 2007

Trouble again...

Well my mouth has been writing checks my butt has to cash again! Sometimes I wish I could just shut up before things tumble out. Alex and I and the little miss got into a family tussle last night and I ended up losing my temper and shouting at Alex in front of the little miss! I know I was wrong and it was disrespectful, but it was a heated moment. Im sorry now that I lost my temper and that I did not think before I let things come out of my mouth! Long story short I was told this morning that I was to have the paddle, belt & bath brush waiting for Alex when he gets home tonight, Little Miss has softball and he is going to leave work early so he has time to correct my attitude before she comes home... (((sigh)))

I hate having to think about this all day!!!!!

Gratitude Tuesday

Happy Gratitude Tuesday! Todays letter is "D"

D for Daddies everywhere,the first men in our lives that help show us the way.

D for Dessert a sweet treat.

D for Driving, a responsibility that is sometimes taken too lightly.

D for Dumbledore a favorite character in books I love.

D for Donuts a comfort food good anytime.

D for Dainty a fun girlie way to be!


Okay I'm tapped out for "D"!!! enjoy the list and have a wonderful Gratitude day

Saturday, April 7, 2007

Happy Easter


Friday night

Well I am feeling MUCH better! Thank goodness I have been for a couple days now. AND since I have been feeling better, my behind has not been off limits anymore. Thursday night I got a quick attitude adjustment, Alex was being sweet and running the sweeper in the kitchen I had to go and make a phone call and when he asked me something I snapped at him and was disrespectful in my words and tone, so after I got off of the phone he told me he did not appreciate the way that I had spoken to him and bent me over the kitchen counter took down my jeans and panties and gave me a several swats with the wooden salad tong! The stupid thing looks harmless but does it sting and it gets the sit spot too well.

Then last night our little Miss was out of the house, so we had planned on going out to dinner and a little shopping, well much to my surprise I was told to go into the bedroom before we left, I was given several swats on my bare behind to remind me to behave while we were out and keep my mouth in check, I sometimes have a who is in charge problem when we are out.. (naughty girl) We had a great time shopping, found some great buys and picked up our Easter fare!!! Here comes the Easter Bunny....


Well we came home and Alex decided since the little Miss was out that we would take care of maintenance then too, Alex got into the bedroom before I did and when I got there he had a huge stack of pillows on the bed, guess for who! and he had out the paddle, the bath brush and the belt, well we usually only use the bath brush for maint. so I was wondering what was going on, he told me he had been doing some reading and read that maint. should be almost as much as a punishment, so he would be using all three just like he does when he does a punishment, so up over that huge stack of pillows which he was quite pleased because it put my behind up nice and high, then the warm up swats started with the brush, after I was nice and pink we started counting of the first 25, he then switched to the belt and alternated with the paddle!! he got in the next 25 for the 50 but still worked back and forth with the belt and paddle and some with the brush, so my behiney got nice and red and stinging like mad!!!! It is still a bit sore this morning, which was his purpose, so it would remind me to get my chores done.... So on that note,Im off to start my chores so they are done by the time he gets home or I will be in BIG trouble and sitting for Easter dinner wont be so much fun..

Wednesday, April 4, 2007

Not such a week

Well I don't have much to report this week so far, I have been a pretty good girl it doesn't help that I have bronchitis and have been pretty under the weather! I thought it was just my allergies but it worked into something much worse. So I am on antibiotics and an inhaler for 10 days ugggh. So the 9:30 bedtime has not been too bad, I have needed the extra sleep with being sick and all, but I'm sure as the week goes on and I feel better it will probably annoy me more! Hopefully I can make it thru the rest of the week and only have maintenance on the weekend.

Allie : )

Monday, April 2, 2007

Gratitude Tuesday

Brought to you by the letter "C"

C For Cookies something I like to make with my daughter.

C For Christmas a happy magical time of year.

C For Comedy I love to laugh "Here's your sign"

C For Coffee, I just love coffee, I cant start my day without a cup!

C For Caring, something we all need to do more.

C For Coupons, I love to cut them and save money.

C For Calculators I would be lost without mine at work.

C For Cars, it would be awfully hard to get where I'm going without it.

C For Cats our funny feline friends.

C For Cuddles, something I like to give and get.

Well there is my C list... Have a great Gratitude Tuesday

Allie

Manic Monday...

Do you remember that song? Well first of all let me say I am dating myself with that song suggestion! But I loved that song back in the day.

Anyhow, I do have a purpose for it. Alex informed me this morning that since my behavior this last week was less than great, and yes I admit it was not a pretty week ! He had to punish me twice for not being a good girl& that this week was going to be much more strict and that he was going to impose an addition to my day. His addition to my day is that all this week I will have a "bedtime", I have to be in bed by 9:30pm, no tv, no reading, straight to bed. Now that is about an hour earlier than I usually go to bed, but when I do go I usually watch tv or catch up on my reading so going straight off to sleep is going to be a challenge.

So here is my question for the week. Have you ever been assigned a bedtime by your HOH? Was it just a one time thing or did you have to do it for a period of time? What was his reason for it?

Alex says that by putting me on a schedule it will help with my bratty behavior and reinforce that he is in charge. I have had a bit of a problem with that this last week, I was not respecting him as HOH as well as I should have.

Well if you would be so kind to answer my question in the comments it would be great! I would like to hear what other HOH couples think.

Hugs,
Allie

Saturday, March 31, 2007

Friday night

Well last night was a little eventful, as we waited for dinner to be done and the little miss was over at a friends house I was told to get into the bedroom for a spanking, I was surprised because we planned to do it tonight, but he wanted to seize the moment, I was going to be spanked for breaking a couple rules and my general bratty attitude the last couple days, so off we went, Alex told me to lie down on the bed, he pulled down said jeans and panties, I didn't see what he got out of the closet to use, he said as we were going in something about the paddle. All I know was he started out hard and fast!! I don't know what got into me but I tried to fight him some, moving and telling him it was too hard etc.. and his answer was well punishment is supposed to hurt! he then got a better hold on my waist and went to town with the hairbrush and then switched to the paddle and back to the hairbrush! I did finally submit to him and started to cry and managed to be still for the rest of the spanking, I did help me let go of some of the stress from the week.

But, it was interesting sitting there thru dinner with a very warm behind and it is a little sore this morning. I know I will be more sore later, as we will still be doing maintenance tonight and there was some mention of a few belt swats for something, I cant remember why!

Well I have to go get busy with housework! I have a busy day ahead!!!

Hugs,
Allie

Friday, March 30, 2007

Blaahhhh week

Well it has been an awful week at work for me! We are down a person in the office and have been interviewing like crazy all week, back to back interviews everyday this week so needless to say it has been impossible to get much work done, so I will be going in this weekend because I need to get month end work done before the accountant is in next week. And, our little miss wanted to sign up for softball this year and that starts this next week so my life is going to get busy busy, they practice 2x a week and then games! So needless to say I wont get to spend much alone time with Alex this weekend.

Oh but, let me tell you Alex did tell me this morning that I have been an awful brat the last couple days and we would be doing maintenance tonight, seeing that the little miss will be home it will either have to be done late or I will get taken out to his workshop and put over the bench.. hmmm at least I know what is coming it will be 50 swats but he did tell me that it will be the paddle tonight not the brush since I've been a brat and they would all be extra hard, I'll let you know how we make out.

Well I have to go get ready for work!
Allie

Monday, March 26, 2007

Gratitude Tuesday

I finally made a tuesday, today we visit "B"

B for Babies, so cute and small

B for Buttons, so very useful

B for Bananas yummy to eat and good for you

B for Bahamas a lovely tropical vacation spot.

B for Bullets, the buzz buzz fun kind!!!!

B for Bottoms some very nice to look at!

B for Boobies, dont forget to feel them! It is so important

B for Baking, one of my favorite hobbies

B for "Bend over", one of Alex's lines!

B for Bookworm a game on yahoo I just love

Happy Gratitude Tuesday!!!!

It's up to you.....

Well the weekend went pretty good. Allie got her discipline Friday night as expected. I decided to give her 30 + 30 for not being such a brat during the week. She realizes what she did was wrong and I have noticed that she did start a list on the refridge. Slowly but surely she is getting the hang of what I expect.

Which leaves me in a dilemma. This weekend was an up and down weekend for myself. Friday night I was fine. Saturday morning however was the start of the downward spiral. I gave Allie her maintenance Saturday morning. I made sure to reinforce that I wouldn't tolerate her being a couch potato. We left around 10 am to get groceries and my stomach started to hurt and I was becoming more sick to my stomach. By the time we came back home I was not feeling very well. I told Allie that I was going in to lay down for awhile. She then took advantage and decided to become a couch potato the rest of the day. Now I do understand that she did not feel good herself and nothing was accomplished the rest of Saturday.

Sunday I was feeling better and told Allie that all of her housework plus her extras had to be done by 8 pm.. She asked even laundry and I told her that even laundry had to be completely done. I even helped her until 1 pm with some of the housework. I was feeling well enough to go out to the shop for the rest of the day to work. I was finishing up making a jig to use with the table saw when I was called in for supper. When I got in the house, I looked to see that it was 7 pm. I walked the dog and then we sat down to a late dinner. I went outback to our laundry room after dinner to find 6 loads of laundry that needed to be folded and put away. At the point I found them it was 7:45 pm.

Which leaves me to think if I should punish her for not having her housework done. I did tell her that everything had to be done by 8 and that she blew off Saturday to get anything started. On the other hand, I was sick and she didn't feel good herself Saturday.

So I am leaving it up to you, the readers, if I should punish her for this weekend. Please leave comments for or against it and on Saturday night I will read them all and decide from all that respond if she will get punished.

Alex

Saturday, March 24, 2007

Tender bottom

Well as you can read below that Alex was planning on a punishment spanking this weekend due to my disobeying one of the rules. Well last night when I got home from work, (Alex had taken the day off & little miss was with grammie) I got introduced to our new spanking bench, we had seen the design on Colorado Spankers, Alex did very nice job making it and padding it!! He had placed it in the middle of the dining room and had the hairbrush, belt and paddle laid out on the table so I knew I was in trouble when I saw those three!

We had a nice dinner, he had it in the oven and almost done when I got home! sweet guy.. thank you honey... But after that I was taken to the dining room and told to bend over the bench, Alex pulled down my pants and panties and started to discuss with me why we were there, the whole time warming my bottom with the hairbrush, it had started to smart pretty good from that and he then told me that I would be receiving 30 with the belt and 30 with the paddle, The first smack of the belt was enough to bring the tears to my eyes! I hate the belt and that is why it is used for punishment. I know the tears also came easily because I felt bad for breaking the rules again and I felt I had disappointed Alex. Well I was given 10 with the belt and then 10 hard smacks with the paddle, then Alex pulled up a chair and scolded me for a couple minutes and then 10 more with the belt and 10 more hard ones with the paddle, more scolding and then the last 10 of each, which we all equally hard and boy was my bottom smarting by that time. Then I was asked to recite the rules, which as you know my memory is for crap! and I had read the blog so quickly that I had not retained them all, anyways Alex pulled up the blog and brought me over to the desk, I had to bend over the desk and read each rule, well after I read each one I received 2 swats with the hairbrush, needless to say my bottom was red!!!!hot!!! and stinging.. Also, he informed me last night that I would receive my weekly maintenance this morning BEFORE we went to get groceries, well when I went to bed last night I was already sore and still sore this morning, but without fail Alex was true to his word, he piled up pillows on the bed and I was given a warm up with his hand and then 50 with the hairbrush, I also had to recite the rules again this morning while he gave me some extra reminders!!! So as I write this my bottom is pretty tender and I know Alex was pretty pleased with the "red factor" it showed after this mornings attention!!!!

I AM AM AM going to try extra hard this week to follow the rules and keep my bratty side as far away as I can!!!!

Hugs,
Allie

Wednesday, March 21, 2007

It seems I need to clarify a few things. First, I am not mean (no matter what you think Emilie), I am very strict, as any HOH should be. In my opinion, a HOH should be strict so that there isn't any out of control play that could be misinterpreted. I will eventually be less strict, but for now, I have to be so that Allie learns what the boundries are. Now I do admit that if I'm in a grumpy mood, I should be left alone completely. I do like to play around as well but when I say stop, it means "STOP". I like to pick on Allie, and she in turn does too. Although she will take it to the next level by tickling (which I hate) and start being a brat.
I should list Allie's rules as she got her self in trouble the other night. She admitted to using all of the Parmesan cheese and forgot to write down on her grocery list to get more. Well we had spaghetti Monday night and I found out that there wasn't any Parmesan for it. I about hit the roof.
Now I now you all are saying "that's no big deal" or "live with it you meanie" but as I documented a few blogs down about the garbage stickers, I equate it to that. Both were items that she forgot to get and both were items that we needed at a certain time. The twist on the cheese is that she claims that it is a different rule to keep a list of needed things. However I contend (and have for the longest time) that she should be keeping a list of things we need to buy when we are out. So now her butt will get to pay the price for forgetting again.
So here it is, a list of what she has to live by:

1) Honor, Respect, and Obey me
2) When I ask for something to be done, do it then, before it is forgotten about
3) Keep a list of items we need to buy while we are out. Don't rely on "remembering it later"
4) Speak freely, even though it might get you in trouble
5) She is to complete at least one if not two extra assignments every weekend
6) Keep our house clean and neat. Piles of stuff not put away, dirty rooms, or incomplete housework won't be tolerated
7) A least ten minutes of snuggle time in the morning
8) Remember that I am in charge

I really hate to discipline her as I don't want to hurt her. But I do love her, so I must discipline her. Sounds weird, huh? It does to me. But if she wants to be the best wife she can be, then she needs discipline. I believe that through a LDD relationship, that our marriage grows stronger and we become closer. Allie now knows her role and has given herself to me. Over time she will be more submissive to me and will be able to stay clear of any discipline leaving us to discover each other again. Until that day, she will be dealt with in a very strict fashion. Alex

Sunday, March 18, 2007

Simple Sunday

Well today for the most part has been pretty mellow. The little miss and I had to take the comforter to the laundry mat to get washed, it is way to big for my washer, then home to finish up house work and get her to clean her room!!! That is an all day task trust me. I have to get my butt moving soon to get dinner in the oven, Alex is out working in his wood shop on a new curio for our bedroom it will be so nice when he gets it done.

Just a quick note that I got my maint. yesterday late afternoon, Alex warmed me up the with hairbrush pretty good and then I got my 50 with the paddle, he actually made me count them out this time!!!! I did pretty well I didnt miss any numbers thank god but it was getting hard to squeak them out at the end, then as he talked to me after the 50 he kept swatting with the paddle and hairbrush telling me what he expects this week etc.. All and all it wasnt terrible but did get the point across! Oh and I didnt get to get my "corner" time in as the little miss was due back with her grammie. I didnt remember to remind Alex after she went to bed either, I was so tired it wasn't funny! So he said that I would get a small reminder tonight and I would be serving my 20mins then.

Well I gotta get going, dinner isn't going to fix itself!
Allie

Friday, March 16, 2007

TGIF

Oh my goodness I am glad it is Friday!!! It has been a long week, work has been stressful as a co-worker announced she was leaving and we had an audit etc.. I did forget to do Thankful Thursday so I think I will try to jot something down now. Let see I will start with letter "A"


A for Alex of course my friend, my lover and my HOH.

A for apples I love a nice crisp apple and of course they make great desserts

A for asses some nice to look at and of course to spank!

A for America!!! God bless us All

A for Australia a dream place to vacation, I hope to get there someday.

A for Albums, music, photo, scrapbook all fun to use.

Well Im going blank so Im done!!

Have a great TGIF and a great weekend! I hope we do but they are calling for another big snow storm here! YUCK.. I am so sick of snow!!!

Thursday, March 15, 2007

Another slip up part two

Well yes I did slip up by forgetting to get the stickers! Stupid stickers anyways.. : )
I see that Alex wrote that I did get a quick spanking for it that night but he also handed out the first non spanking punishment, I had to write 100 times that I will not forget to buy garbage stickers and he also told me that I will be serving 20mins corner time on saturday after my maint. He is being a little more strict with me right now because of my messing up so soon after being punished, and I respect him for that because it is helping me learn the limits.
Allie

Tuesday, March 13, 2007

Another slip up.....

Well Allie was on the verge of having a decent week. It seems that the punishment she received Saturday night made her more aware of her attitude. Tonight on the other hand seemed to start going downhill.
We have to put a sticker on our garbage bags so that they will get picked up. I had reminded Allie to pick some up since we were out. When I got home tonight (garbage night), she admitted that she had forgotten to go get them. Well at least she was honest about it.
When our daughter was in the shower tonight, Allie went over my knee for a well deserved punishment. Enough scolding and spanking to make her realize that I am serious when I ask her to do something. I hope that she will remember next time.

Alex

Sunday, March 11, 2007

Paddle

Oh and before I forget, In case any of you are in need of a new paddle! The one I have been talking about on here is one Alex picked up at Michael's arts and crafts. It looks like a bread type cutting board and was such a bargain for $5.95. I'll see if Alex can take a picture of it and I'll post it on here, or I know Angelbrat has a picture of it on her blog.

Hugs,
Allie

Wicked Weekend

Well the weekend is almost over already, boy does time fly! Last night Alex got around to applying my punishment for Moody Monday he had been telling me all week that it was going to be bad, hard etc.. well for the record he was not kidding. We had decided that when we started DD again that we were going to commit to it and work harder to make it work and we have been doing pretty well except for Moody Monday and I now have learned my lesson well that Alex is NOT going to tolerate any type of bratty behavior on my part.

He once again positioned me over the arm of the sofa and pulled down my pants and panties and I got a small warm up with the wooden bath brush and the start of a stern scolding about my behavior after he had scolded me some more he asked if I felt I deserved what he was going to give me and I told him yes I did as I had broken one of our rules that is when he started to spank me with the belt, for the record I hate the belt it lands with such a thud and stings so much he peppered my bottom with it for quite some time all he while scolding me about my behavior, I did cry a bit and apologized for being a brat and not being respectful. Well even though he spanked me quite a bit and quite firmly I did not end up as red or sore as he had wished I would because he wanted me to have a sore bottom for at least a couple days to remind me that my mouth gets me in trouble.
Needless to say the punishment was repeated again this morning to drive home the point that he is HOH and that I need to keep that in mind and to not even think about being a brat this week. This morning I was over the sofa arm again with my nightie pulled up. He warmed my buns with the wooden bath brush again for a longer amount of time and then switched to the paddle OWWW that thing packs quite a sting, after my bottom felt like it was on fire he brought out the belt again and I got a few smacks with that also and then back to the paddle. Needless to say as I write this I am sitting on a very sore bottom!!!!! I know I cant complain because my bratty attitude and disrespect of Alex was what got me where I was and I respect and love him so much for giving me the spanking that I deserved. Thanks Honey and I'll try to be MUCH better this week.

Friday, March 9, 2007

Well to explain......

Allie (if you were to ask anyways) would paint a picture that I am too strict. We recently discussed punishment and what will happen. As everyone knows, a brat isn't a brat until it goes too far. Allie and I talked about what would get her in trouble and what the consequences would be. First I explained that yes she could be playful but when I say enough or stop, I mean it. Also the 3 D's will get her a punishment as well. She was also made aware of certain other things that are not going to be tolerated.

So you are wondering what her punishment is? I feel that she will get the belt until I feel that she has learned her lesson. That will involve tears and crying and a lot of pain. But what am I to do? Was I the one to act up? She hates the belt and on top of that I have the begining of arthritis in my hands. I can go for about 15-20 good swats with my hands and I am spent. I have learned through reading the worst thing I can do is to "assign" either a certain amount of swats or a certain length of time.

We are just starting a large commitment to a LDD lifestyle. Yes as I read more and more posts, blogs, and books I am learning what to do as HOH. However I would like to know from some of you is how do you address certain situations. What to do when you have a child in the house? Also what about rules in your house. Are they numerous or a just a few rules that have a broader reach.

Tomorrow she has a punishment for not only Monday night. (Read the post below for that info) Also she disrespected me by not asking if I was going to wear a sweatshirt that I wanted to wear to work. I know she will be as red or even more red than the first photos.

Now don't get me wrong, It might seem severe. I believe though that the punishment must fit the crime(s). And for her, it is the only way I will break her of the brat attitude. She isn't a perfect angel, however sisnce Tuesday morning, I haven't had any problems or bratting this week.

Well I'm off to bed........

Alex

Wednesday, March 7, 2007

Moody Monday

So its been a few days since I wrote anything, the weekend for the most part was good I bought the most wonderful vacuum, I know its weird to be happy about a vacuum, but this thing it equal to a Dyson but cheaper and OMG did it do a great job!!!

Alex did a maintenance spanking on Sunday night and because I had been a bit snotty I did get 20 extra swats with the belt to remind me that he will not tolerate that kind of behavior. Buttt as the title says Monday was not a good day for me, it just did not start out right. My bottom was still a bit sore and I have a desk job so I sit most of the day and it was just a MONDAY! So I got myself into a mood by the time I left work and forgot to leave it there. Long story short Monday night was not good at home, our little Miss was being all 8 and then some and I was moody and was trying not to be snotty but bratty won out and I was not a good wifey..

I was feeling bad about it and when we woke up Tuesday morning the first thing I did was apologize to Alex for my behavior the night before he thanked me for that, but informed me that because of my behavior I had earned myself a punishment and he would let me know when that will take place. So he told me this morning that he was going to change our schedule this weekend and that maintenance would be done on Friday night and that he would take care of the punishment on Saturday. So I will have to let you know how that goes.

Thursday, March 1, 2007

Thankful Thursday!

I am very thankful that it is Thursday! What a week it has been and we still have 1 more work day. I swear I have been trapped in a week of repeating Mondays, not good. So to make me feel more cheerful I thought I would list a few things I am thankful for.

I am very thankful for a hubby that spanks me when I need it and even when I dont think I do!!

Sunny days, not a very common thing here in the winter.

Warm blankets on a cold night, very comforting!

COFFEE.. I don't think I can start my day with out a cup..

A good job that is not to stressful, the last one before just about put me over the edge!!! I was driving Alex crazy....


Im not awake enough to think of more right now so I will work on it more later.

Oh and before I forget, I hear I am in for an extended maintenance spanking this weekend. Alex had decided that 50 smacks on my bare bottom on the weekends would be a good reminder of who is boss and to take care of anything that he missed during the week, but because I have had some problems this week with being bratty I have earned some extra, hopefully not too many.

Sunday, February 25, 2007

Welcome

Happy Sunday,

Alex and I have decided it was time to start our own blog on our spanking relationship, we have enjoyed reading other peoples stories and insights and thought that we would like to share ours too. We started testing the DD waters awhile ago and trust me we have not been the most consistent at it!!! Butt.... we have decided to make a bigger commitment to it because we seem to get closer when we do.

Well this week was not such a good one for me I don't know what got into me but I just felt devilish and kept picking at Alex. Its fine in its place but not good when it keeps on going, I sometimes have a problem stopping when he tells me enough and that was the case this week.

I guess in a way I just had to keep testing the water. Well long story short he told me that if I didn't knock it off I would get it. He also reminded me a few times that I needed to remember who was in charge. Well I just didn't take it to heart and was told Thursday that I would be going over the couch on Friday night and that he had been to Michael's and picked up a surprise for me that I would meet on Friday night as well. I had about figured that it was the new paddle we had seen on Angelbrat's blog. One of the last emails I got from him on Friday was telling me that he hoped I understood why I would be getting a severe punishment spanking and then outlined why mostly for my bratty attitude, my picking at him, and lack of respect for him being HOH, and for not being very motivated around the house especially since he is working 6 days a week.

Sooooooo, Friday night got here and we did a few out on the town kinda things then came home, as we pulled into our driveway I was told to go in the house and get my outfit on, yes when its punishment I have a nice little short skirt to wear with white cotton panties etc.. So I was put over the couch, skirt lifted, and Alex started asking me why we were here etc... while he started spanking me over my panties and they were not light little hand slaps. About after 20 or so he pulled my panties down and grabbed for his new friend and started spanking with that new paddle. Let me tell you that darn thing leaves a pretty good sting and due to the fact that he wanted to drive it home he had brought out the belt too. In the past, we had never gotten very far with the belt because I always stopped him but he warned me that there would be no stopping this time I was going to be spanked until he felt I had learned my lesson!

So he let me stand up for a few minutes and got me a drink and then sat in front of me and said he was sorry he was going to have to use the belt on me but I had brought it on myself and that when he was done spanking me with it he would be back in front of me for a sincere apology he then bent me back over the couch and started spanking me HARD with that belt and OMG it stung so much. I did say stop like 3 times to no avail he kept on spanking and I was crying, he came back in front of me and I apologized for being so very bad he said he was glad I was sorry and we were almost done! I was thinking almost done!!! I thought we were!! Well I got a few more spanks with the belt and then with the paddle again. He told me to pull up my panties and pull down my skirt and man could I feel the heat!! We went into our room where Alex took a couple pictures of my poor red butt.

I can say that I have definetly learned my lesson and place in the household. It has raised our relationship to a new level. The problem that we had before was that Alex would say "man your going to get it" and it wouldn't be much more than a maintainance spanking. After Friday night, I know that Alex means business. I am so proud of him for following through. The rest of the weekend I was left with a good reminder of what he told me.

Allie