Saturday, March 31, 2007

Friday night

Well last night was a little eventful, as we waited for dinner to be done and the little miss was over at a friends house I was told to get into the bedroom for a spanking, I was surprised because we planned to do it tonight, but he wanted to seize the moment, I was going to be spanked for breaking a couple rules and my general bratty attitude the last couple days, so off we went, Alex told me to lie down on the bed, he pulled down said jeans and panties, I didn't see what he got out of the closet to use, he said as we were going in something about the paddle. All I know was he started out hard and fast!! I don't know what got into me but I tried to fight him some, moving and telling him it was too hard etc.. and his answer was well punishment is supposed to hurt! he then got a better hold on my waist and went to town with the hairbrush and then switched to the paddle and back to the hairbrush! I did finally submit to him and started to cry and managed to be still for the rest of the spanking, I did help me let go of some of the stress from the week.

But, it was interesting sitting there thru dinner with a very warm behind and it is a little sore this morning. I know I will be more sore later, as we will still be doing maintenance tonight and there was some mention of a few belt swats for something, I cant remember why!

Well I have to go get busy with housework! I have a busy day ahead!!!

Hugs,
Allie

Friday, March 30, 2007

Blaahhhh week

Well it has been an awful week at work for me! We are down a person in the office and have been interviewing like crazy all week, back to back interviews everyday this week so needless to say it has been impossible to get much work done, so I will be going in this weekend because I need to get month end work done before the accountant is in next week. And, our little miss wanted to sign up for softball this year and that starts this next week so my life is going to get busy busy, they practice 2x a week and then games! So needless to say I wont get to spend much alone time with Alex this weekend.

Oh but, let me tell you Alex did tell me this morning that I have been an awful brat the last couple days and we would be doing maintenance tonight, seeing that the little miss will be home it will either have to be done late or I will get taken out to his workshop and put over the bench.. hmmm at least I know what is coming it will be 50 swats but he did tell me that it will be the paddle tonight not the brush since I've been a brat and they would all be extra hard, I'll let you know how we make out.

Well I have to go get ready for work!
Allie

Monday, March 26, 2007

Gratitude Tuesday

I finally made a tuesday, today we visit "B"

B for Babies, so cute and small

B for Buttons, so very useful

B for Bananas yummy to eat and good for you

B for Bahamas a lovely tropical vacation spot.

B for Bullets, the buzz buzz fun kind!!!!

B for Bottoms some very nice to look at!

B for Boobies, dont forget to feel them! It is so important

B for Baking, one of my favorite hobbies

B for "Bend over", one of Alex's lines!

B for Bookworm a game on yahoo I just love

Happy Gratitude Tuesday!!!!

It's up to you.....

Well the weekend went pretty good. Allie got her discipline Friday night as expected. I decided to give her 30 + 30 for not being such a brat during the week. She realizes what she did was wrong and I have noticed that she did start a list on the refridge. Slowly but surely she is getting the hang of what I expect.

Which leaves me in a dilemma. This weekend was an up and down weekend for myself. Friday night I was fine. Saturday morning however was the start of the downward spiral. I gave Allie her maintenance Saturday morning. I made sure to reinforce that I wouldn't tolerate her being a couch potato. We left around 10 am to get groceries and my stomach started to hurt and I was becoming more sick to my stomach. By the time we came back home I was not feeling very well. I told Allie that I was going in to lay down for awhile. She then took advantage and decided to become a couch potato the rest of the day. Now I do understand that she did not feel good herself and nothing was accomplished the rest of Saturday.

Sunday I was feeling better and told Allie that all of her housework plus her extras had to be done by 8 pm.. She asked even laundry and I told her that even laundry had to be completely done. I even helped her until 1 pm with some of the housework. I was feeling well enough to go out to the shop for the rest of the day to work. I was finishing up making a jig to use with the table saw when I was called in for supper. When I got in the house, I looked to see that it was 7 pm. I walked the dog and then we sat down to a late dinner. I went outback to our laundry room after dinner to find 6 loads of laundry that needed to be folded and put away. At the point I found them it was 7:45 pm.

Which leaves me to think if I should punish her for not having her housework done. I did tell her that everything had to be done by 8 and that she blew off Saturday to get anything started. On the other hand, I was sick and she didn't feel good herself Saturday.

So I am leaving it up to you, the readers, if I should punish her for this weekend. Please leave comments for or against it and on Saturday night I will read them all and decide from all that respond if she will get punished.

Alex

Saturday, March 24, 2007

Tender bottom

Well as you can read below that Alex was planning on a punishment spanking this weekend due to my disobeying one of the rules. Well last night when I got home from work, (Alex had taken the day off & little miss was with grammie) I got introduced to our new spanking bench, we had seen the design on Colorado Spankers, Alex did very nice job making it and padding it!! He had placed it in the middle of the dining room and had the hairbrush, belt and paddle laid out on the table so I knew I was in trouble when I saw those three!

We had a nice dinner, he had it in the oven and almost done when I got home! sweet guy.. thank you honey... But after that I was taken to the dining room and told to bend over the bench, Alex pulled down my pants and panties and started to discuss with me why we were there, the whole time warming my bottom with the hairbrush, it had started to smart pretty good from that and he then told me that I would be receiving 30 with the belt and 30 with the paddle, The first smack of the belt was enough to bring the tears to my eyes! I hate the belt and that is why it is used for punishment. I know the tears also came easily because I felt bad for breaking the rules again and I felt I had disappointed Alex. Well I was given 10 with the belt and then 10 hard smacks with the paddle, then Alex pulled up a chair and scolded me for a couple minutes and then 10 more with the belt and 10 more hard ones with the paddle, more scolding and then the last 10 of each, which we all equally hard and boy was my bottom smarting by that time. Then I was asked to recite the rules, which as you know my memory is for crap! and I had read the blog so quickly that I had not retained them all, anyways Alex pulled up the blog and brought me over to the desk, I had to bend over the desk and read each rule, well after I read each one I received 2 swats with the hairbrush, needless to say my bottom was red!!!!hot!!! and stinging.. Also, he informed me last night that I would receive my weekly maintenance this morning BEFORE we went to get groceries, well when I went to bed last night I was already sore and still sore this morning, but without fail Alex was true to his word, he piled up pillows on the bed and I was given a warm up with his hand and then 50 with the hairbrush, I also had to recite the rules again this morning while he gave me some extra reminders!!! So as I write this my bottom is pretty tender and I know Alex was pretty pleased with the "red factor" it showed after this mornings attention!!!!

I AM AM AM going to try extra hard this week to follow the rules and keep my bratty side as far away as I can!!!!

Hugs,
Allie

Wednesday, March 21, 2007

It seems I need to clarify a few things. First, I am not mean (no matter what you think Emilie), I am very strict, as any HOH should be. In my opinion, a HOH should be strict so that there isn't any out of control play that could be misinterpreted. I will eventually be less strict, but for now, I have to be so that Allie learns what the boundries are. Now I do admit that if I'm in a grumpy mood, I should be left alone completely. I do like to play around as well but when I say stop, it means "STOP". I like to pick on Allie, and she in turn does too. Although she will take it to the next level by tickling (which I hate) and start being a brat.
I should list Allie's rules as she got her self in trouble the other night. She admitted to using all of the Parmesan cheese and forgot to write down on her grocery list to get more. Well we had spaghetti Monday night and I found out that there wasn't any Parmesan for it. I about hit the roof.
Now I now you all are saying "that's no big deal" or "live with it you meanie" but as I documented a few blogs down about the garbage stickers, I equate it to that. Both were items that she forgot to get and both were items that we needed at a certain time. The twist on the cheese is that she claims that it is a different rule to keep a list of needed things. However I contend (and have for the longest time) that she should be keeping a list of things we need to buy when we are out. So now her butt will get to pay the price for forgetting again.
So here it is, a list of what she has to live by:

1) Honor, Respect, and Obey me
2) When I ask for something to be done, do it then, before it is forgotten about
3) Keep a list of items we need to buy while we are out. Don't rely on "remembering it later"
4) Speak freely, even though it might get you in trouble
5) She is to complete at least one if not two extra assignments every weekend
6) Keep our house clean and neat. Piles of stuff not put away, dirty rooms, or incomplete housework won't be tolerated
7) A least ten minutes of snuggle time in the morning
8) Remember that I am in charge

I really hate to discipline her as I don't want to hurt her. But I do love her, so I must discipline her. Sounds weird, huh? It does to me. But if she wants to be the best wife she can be, then she needs discipline. I believe that through a LDD relationship, that our marriage grows stronger and we become closer. Allie now knows her role and has given herself to me. Over time she will be more submissive to me and will be able to stay clear of any discipline leaving us to discover each other again. Until that day, she will be dealt with in a very strict fashion. Alex

Sunday, March 18, 2007

Simple Sunday

Well today for the most part has been pretty mellow. The little miss and I had to take the comforter to the laundry mat to get washed, it is way to big for my washer, then home to finish up house work and get her to clean her room!!! That is an all day task trust me. I have to get my butt moving soon to get dinner in the oven, Alex is out working in his wood shop on a new curio for our bedroom it will be so nice when he gets it done.

Just a quick note that I got my maint. yesterday late afternoon, Alex warmed me up the with hairbrush pretty good and then I got my 50 with the paddle, he actually made me count them out this time!!!! I did pretty well I didnt miss any numbers thank god but it was getting hard to squeak them out at the end, then as he talked to me after the 50 he kept swatting with the paddle and hairbrush telling me what he expects this week etc.. All and all it wasnt terrible but did get the point across! Oh and I didnt get to get my "corner" time in as the little miss was due back with her grammie. I didnt remember to remind Alex after she went to bed either, I was so tired it wasn't funny! So he said that I would get a small reminder tonight and I would be serving my 20mins then.

Well I gotta get going, dinner isn't going to fix itself!
Allie

Friday, March 16, 2007

TGIF

Oh my goodness I am glad it is Friday!!! It has been a long week, work has been stressful as a co-worker announced she was leaving and we had an audit etc.. I did forget to do Thankful Thursday so I think I will try to jot something down now. Let see I will start with letter "A"


A for Alex of course my friend, my lover and my HOH.

A for apples I love a nice crisp apple and of course they make great desserts

A for asses some nice to look at and of course to spank!

A for America!!! God bless us All

A for Australia a dream place to vacation, I hope to get there someday.

A for Albums, music, photo, scrapbook all fun to use.

Well Im going blank so Im done!!

Have a great TGIF and a great weekend! I hope we do but they are calling for another big snow storm here! YUCK.. I am so sick of snow!!!

Thursday, March 15, 2007

Another slip up part two

Well yes I did slip up by forgetting to get the stickers! Stupid stickers anyways.. : )
I see that Alex wrote that I did get a quick spanking for it that night but he also handed out the first non spanking punishment, I had to write 100 times that I will not forget to buy garbage stickers and he also told me that I will be serving 20mins corner time on saturday after my maint. He is being a little more strict with me right now because of my messing up so soon after being punished, and I respect him for that because it is helping me learn the limits.
Allie

Tuesday, March 13, 2007

Another slip up.....

Well Allie was on the verge of having a decent week. It seems that the punishment she received Saturday night made her more aware of her attitude. Tonight on the other hand seemed to start going downhill.
We have to put a sticker on our garbage bags so that they will get picked up. I had reminded Allie to pick some up since we were out. When I got home tonight (garbage night), she admitted that she had forgotten to go get them. Well at least she was honest about it.
When our daughter was in the shower tonight, Allie went over my knee for a well deserved punishment. Enough scolding and spanking to make her realize that I am serious when I ask her to do something. I hope that she will remember next time.

Alex

Sunday, March 11, 2007

Paddle

Oh and before I forget, In case any of you are in need of a new paddle! The one I have been talking about on here is one Alex picked up at Michael's arts and crafts. It looks like a bread type cutting board and was such a bargain for $5.95. I'll see if Alex can take a picture of it and I'll post it on here, or I know Angelbrat has a picture of it on her blog.

Hugs,
Allie

Wicked Weekend

Well the weekend is almost over already, boy does time fly! Last night Alex got around to applying my punishment for Moody Monday he had been telling me all week that it was going to be bad, hard etc.. well for the record he was not kidding. We had decided that when we started DD again that we were going to commit to it and work harder to make it work and we have been doing pretty well except for Moody Monday and I now have learned my lesson well that Alex is NOT going to tolerate any type of bratty behavior on my part.

He once again positioned me over the arm of the sofa and pulled down my pants and panties and I got a small warm up with the wooden bath brush and the start of a stern scolding about my behavior after he had scolded me some more he asked if I felt I deserved what he was going to give me and I told him yes I did as I had broken one of our rules that is when he started to spank me with the belt, for the record I hate the belt it lands with such a thud and stings so much he peppered my bottom with it for quite some time all he while scolding me about my behavior, I did cry a bit and apologized for being a brat and not being respectful. Well even though he spanked me quite a bit and quite firmly I did not end up as red or sore as he had wished I would because he wanted me to have a sore bottom for at least a couple days to remind me that my mouth gets me in trouble.
Needless to say the punishment was repeated again this morning to drive home the point that he is HOH and that I need to keep that in mind and to not even think about being a brat this week. This morning I was over the sofa arm again with my nightie pulled up. He warmed my buns with the wooden bath brush again for a longer amount of time and then switched to the paddle OWWW that thing packs quite a sting, after my bottom felt like it was on fire he brought out the belt again and I got a few smacks with that also and then back to the paddle. Needless to say as I write this I am sitting on a very sore bottom!!!!! I know I cant complain because my bratty attitude and disrespect of Alex was what got me where I was and I respect and love him so much for giving me the spanking that I deserved. Thanks Honey and I'll try to be MUCH better this week.

Friday, March 9, 2007

Well to explain......

Allie (if you were to ask anyways) would paint a picture that I am too strict. We recently discussed punishment and what will happen. As everyone knows, a brat isn't a brat until it goes too far. Allie and I talked about what would get her in trouble and what the consequences would be. First I explained that yes she could be playful but when I say enough or stop, I mean it. Also the 3 D's will get her a punishment as well. She was also made aware of certain other things that are not going to be tolerated.

So you are wondering what her punishment is? I feel that she will get the belt until I feel that she has learned her lesson. That will involve tears and crying and a lot of pain. But what am I to do? Was I the one to act up? She hates the belt and on top of that I have the begining of arthritis in my hands. I can go for about 15-20 good swats with my hands and I am spent. I have learned through reading the worst thing I can do is to "assign" either a certain amount of swats or a certain length of time.

We are just starting a large commitment to a LDD lifestyle. Yes as I read more and more posts, blogs, and books I am learning what to do as HOH. However I would like to know from some of you is how do you address certain situations. What to do when you have a child in the house? Also what about rules in your house. Are they numerous or a just a few rules that have a broader reach.

Tomorrow she has a punishment for not only Monday night. (Read the post below for that info) Also she disrespected me by not asking if I was going to wear a sweatshirt that I wanted to wear to work. I know she will be as red or even more red than the first photos.

Now don't get me wrong, It might seem severe. I believe though that the punishment must fit the crime(s). And for her, it is the only way I will break her of the brat attitude. She isn't a perfect angel, however sisnce Tuesday morning, I haven't had any problems or bratting this week.

Well I'm off to bed........

Alex

Wednesday, March 7, 2007

Moody Monday

So its been a few days since I wrote anything, the weekend for the most part was good I bought the most wonderful vacuum, I know its weird to be happy about a vacuum, but this thing it equal to a Dyson but cheaper and OMG did it do a great job!!!

Alex did a maintenance spanking on Sunday night and because I had been a bit snotty I did get 20 extra swats with the belt to remind me that he will not tolerate that kind of behavior. Buttt as the title says Monday was not a good day for me, it just did not start out right. My bottom was still a bit sore and I have a desk job so I sit most of the day and it was just a MONDAY! So I got myself into a mood by the time I left work and forgot to leave it there. Long story short Monday night was not good at home, our little Miss was being all 8 and then some and I was moody and was trying not to be snotty but bratty won out and I was not a good wifey..

I was feeling bad about it and when we woke up Tuesday morning the first thing I did was apologize to Alex for my behavior the night before he thanked me for that, but informed me that because of my behavior I had earned myself a punishment and he would let me know when that will take place. So he told me this morning that he was going to change our schedule this weekend and that maintenance would be done on Friday night and that he would take care of the punishment on Saturday. So I will have to let you know how that goes.

Thursday, March 1, 2007

Thankful Thursday!

I am very thankful that it is Thursday! What a week it has been and we still have 1 more work day. I swear I have been trapped in a week of repeating Mondays, not good. So to make me feel more cheerful I thought I would list a few things I am thankful for.

I am very thankful for a hubby that spanks me when I need it and even when I dont think I do!!

Sunny days, not a very common thing here in the winter.

Warm blankets on a cold night, very comforting!

COFFEE.. I don't think I can start my day with out a cup..

A good job that is not to stressful, the last one before just about put me over the edge!!! I was driving Alex crazy....


Im not awake enough to think of more right now so I will work on it more later.

Oh and before I forget, I hear I am in for an extended maintenance spanking this weekend. Alex had decided that 50 smacks on my bare bottom on the weekends would be a good reminder of who is boss and to take care of anything that he missed during the week, but because I have had some problems this week with being bratty I have earned some extra, hopefully not too many.