We're Back....

Okay just in case any of you are checking in on us, the dry spell has ended! I received my first spanking in a long time this afternoon. Alex bought me this little mini dress thing that I now have to wear for spanking anyhow we are starting off slow so I received a round of hand spanks to warm things up and then 20 with the hairbrush, which of course I had to count out. Boy did I forget that that thing can sting!!!

We are making a commitment to getting back to our DD with a couple added things, first of course it getting back to the "rules", they are on here somewhere I will have to find them again. Second Alex told me that he wants to try a little chastity mixed in, this is on him, not me so I will keep you updated on that and finally he is going to get back to work on quitting smoking and has agreed to start attending church with the little miss and I as a family!!! So you can see we have been up to lots of changes at our place.

Hugs,
Allie

Guess What???

Hi there,

Well I know I have not been keeping up on this like I should, but life here is still pretty darn busy! Hopefully after next weekend things will slow down. Anyhow, I thought I would put a note out here to let you all know that I'm probably going to have some more to write about after tonight. Alex and I decided it's time to get back to business and we have "scheduled" as he likes to call it a "reset" spanking tonight! He's been telling me for the past couple days that I am going to have a little bottom fire cute huh? and I must say I got a few firmly placed swats this morning before we got out of bed, so Im thinking that the funk is just about over...

Well gotta run things to do! miss all of you guys and I really have to catch up on what you have been up to... Happy Spanking!!!!

Hugs,
Allie

Checking in

Well I thought I best put something out here since its been ages since I've had anything to say! sorry about that. Not much has changed here, we are still working on our non spanking thing I do believe we are getting closer.

Our little miss has taken so to softball that our whole house has revolved around that for the entire month of May and part of June and now she made the all star team so we will be tied up until the first of July!!! we are so proud of her, but man the running around does get a bit much.

On the spanking note, Alex did threaten to paddle me this last weekend, but we just never got around to it, see I told you things were starting to get back to normal a little! We just need to make time to do it.

I hope everyone else is well and having great fun..

Hugs,
Allie

We're in a Funk....

Well you probably could tell that something is different here on our blog, I have to admit we have fallen into a funk, or a non-spanking block...We were going along pretty well and then we both got sick a couple weeks apart so no spankings took place and that is where we seem to be stuck. I guess we need to set down and talk about it some more and refocus. I dont want to give up on the "DD" again but we just dont seem to be headed the way we were. Any advice you guys could offer would be help, that for sure.

Hopefully we will be back to spanking again soon, we just have to figure out how to get out of our "blahh" space. Otherwise things are good here.. Hope everyone else is having a great spanking time..

Allie

Spanking

Well I'm being told that I will get a spanking tonight!!! yeah... I know that sounds dumb but I really feel like I need one, Im feeling pretty bitchy and very short tempered, so I'm sure it will help mellow me out and get me focused back to where I need to be. I hope it will be one that starts out a bit slow and works it's way up they are my favorite. I really am not fond of the rapid fire method, it's just too shocking to my behind and seeing that it has not been warmed up in a couple weeks it's likely to get tender pretty quick. I guess that if probably why Alex tends to use the rapid fire method for those dreaded punishments.

Well I'll post more later or tomorrow and let you know how it turned out.

Hugs,
Allie

Getting back to normal

Well things are getting back to normal here little by little. Alex is feeling much better, thank goodness! and we are adjusting to the ball schedule better. Thankfully we only have 2 games this week.

I did get a couple hard smacks on my behind last night for being a brat, something Im told we will take care of this weekend.. hmmmmm...

Oh and get this, Alex told me my "extra" chore this weekend is going to be cutting out a paddle I designed, I have been tinkering with drawing one here and there so we'll see how that goes. If it turns out well maybe I'll post a picture on here.

Allie

Busy Busy

Well I havent written much on here lately, but life has been so hectic this last week it isn't funny! Between work, and outside commitments there just was not an extra minute to be found.

Hopefully this week will be somewhat better, but I know I have 2 nights of running for sure.

As such there has not been any spanking going on at our place, Alex says I am way overdue since he has not properly spanked me in two weeks!!! So I am sure one good one is coming my way pretty soon, though he woke up this morning not feeling very well I think his allergies are getting to him things here are blooming like crazy and that will do it. So maybe not til the end of the week....

Just wanted to say HI to everyone that reads us and let you know that I will try to be better about posting this week.

Hugs,
Allie

Gratitude Tuesday

Hooray its Gratitude Tuesday again! Today is "E" day....

E for Electricity, otherwise we would always be in the dark! hehehe

E for Eggs a versatile quick meal anytime.

E for Entertainment a good way to relax and have some fun.

E for Elephants a majestic animal that can be fun to watch.

E for Everyone who reads and comments on our blog! Thanks for the fun we've had so far.

E for Eyes to see with and Ears to hear with, because without them I would have missed so very much in my life!

E for Easter, one of my favorite times of year.

Well there you go have an "E"xcellent day!!!!!

Hugs,
Allie

Family Guy

Just gotta love Family guy!!! I think Lois is a total spanko!

a little spanking

Oh before I forget to mention it, we did have a little spanking this week too, I have been behaving a little better this week, I think anyways, Alex did give me a small one last night he said that I had been a bit bossy which equates to disrespect so I went over the sofa arm for a little bun warmer with our new hairbrush.. It was stingy but not too bad.

Some week

Sorry we haven't put much up this week, but it's been such a week. I have been bogged down at work, and then the unthinkable tragedy of Virginia Tech! What a terrible thing, I just don't understand what makes people snap like that and then the copy cat happenings all over the country I find it so unreal... The families who lost dear love one have been in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to be.

As a parent I feel for them so much I can't imagine losing my child anyway, but in such a senseless brutal way is just to much to handle, I pray that they maintain their courage and strength to get them through the next few weeks and know that they are in so many peoples thoughts and prayers and they find comfort in that.

Please take a quiet moment at some point today and say a prayer for the families..

Punishment accomplished

Last night Alex finally got to issue the punishment that he had planned for Tuesday. I had had plenty of time to think about what I had done wrong, and I had written about how sorry I was on here and also had discussed it with Alex in regard to knowing that it was wrong and disrespectful.

Long story short I was taken to the workshop, he brought along the "wicked trinity" the belt,paddle & bath brush. Alex had been out there before he came and got me so he had it all nice and warm but had also placed one of his stools squarely in the middle of the room, guess for who?? (((g))) I was positioned over said stool and relieved of my pants and panties, then of course the questions started and along with that came the scolding I knew I was going to get and deserved. After he had time to scold me and make me think even more of how awful my mouth had been he started with some slow lighter spanks with the brush to warm things up then moved on with the sounder scolding and firmer spanks with the belt he did quite a few with it, I lost count as the tears were flowing pretty well and then onto the paddle, I am truly starting to hate that darn paddle it lands with such a thud and stings like the dickens, I was crying pretty hard, a good emotional release as I had been dreading saturday for a couple days, he did alternate between the belt and paddle quite a bit and my behind was burning like mad.

I know I deserved this punishment so much as it was terrible of me to yell at him in front of our little miss and terribly disrespectful, I am working very hard to keep my mouth under control and my sore behind today has been a great reminder of how much he is not going to tolerate it. He also told me that if it did not improve quickly that I would be going to the workshop nightly for attitude adjustments for a week and see if that helps to remind me!!! Can you say OUCH..

Note to Alex, I am so sorry I was so very disrespectful to you, I will try much much harder to treat you with the respect you deserve and remember that you are my HOH, Thank you for caring enough to spank me last night. Love Allie

Update on Trouble again

Well Alex has not gotten around to attitude adjustment. Tuesday night just was way to busy, you know sometimes life just gets in the way. Anyhow, he let me know that I am not off the hook and that Saturday night he and I have an appointment to get things done.

He said to be prepared for a "big time spanking", not like anything I have received before, he is tired of my attitude this week and still pretty peeved about the tussle from the other night! He told me to figure on lots of crying and a very sore bottom YIKES!!! Like I said before I hate having to think about it all the rest of the week. Also he has assigned me 200 lines due to him by saturday and that after the spanking I will be serving 20mins corner time. yuck.

Well gotta run.

Trouble again...

Well my mouth has been writing checks my butt has to cash again! Sometimes I wish I could just shut up before things tumble out. Alex and I and the little miss got into a family tussle last night and I ended up losing my temper and shouting at Alex in front of the little miss! I know I was wrong and it was disrespectful, but it was a heated moment. Im sorry now that I lost my temper and that I did not think before I let things come out of my mouth! Long story short I was told this morning that I was to have the paddle, belt & bath brush waiting for Alex when he gets home tonight, Little Miss has softball and he is going to leave work early so he has time to correct my attitude before she comes home... (((sigh)))

I hate having to think about this all day!!!!!

Gratitude Tuesday

Happy Gratitude Tuesday! Todays letter is "D"

D for Daddies everywhere,the first men in our lives that help show us the way.

D for Dessert a sweet treat.

D for Driving, a responsibility that is sometimes taken too lightly.

D for Dumbledore a favorite character in books I love.

D for Donuts a comfort food good anytime.

D for Dainty a fun girlie way to be!


Okay I'm tapped out for "D"!!! enjoy the list and have a wonderful Gratitude day

Happy Easter

Friday night

Well I am feeling MUCH better! Thank goodness I have been for a couple days now. AND since I have been feeling better, my behind has not been off limits anymore. Thursday night I got a quick attitude adjustment, Alex was being sweet and running the sweeper in the kitchen I had to go and make a phone call and when he asked me something I snapped at him and was disrespectful in my words and tone, so after I got off of the phone he told me he did not appreciate the way that I had spoken to him and bent me over the kitchen counter took down my jeans and panties and gave me a several swats with the wooden salad tong! The stupid thing looks harmless but does it sting and it gets the sit spot too well.

Then last night our little Miss was out of the house, so we had planned on going out to dinner and a little shopping, well much to my surprise I was told to go into the bedroom before we left, I was given several swats on my bare behind to remind me to behave while we were out and keep my mouth in check, I sometimes have a who is in charge problem when we are out.. (naughty girl) We had a great time shopping, found some great buys and picked up our Easter fare!!! Here comes the Easter Bunny....


Well we came home and Alex decided since the little Miss was out that we would take care of maintenance then too, Alex got into the bedroom before I did and when I got there he had a huge stack of pillows on the bed, guess for who! and he had out the paddle, the bath brush and the belt, well we usually only use the bath brush for maint. so I was wondering what was going on, he told me he had been doing some reading and read that maint. should be almost as much as a punishment, so he would be using all three just like he does when he does a punishment, so up over that huge stack of pillows which he was quite pleased because it put my behind up nice and high, then the warm up swats started with the brush, after I was nice and pink we started counting of the first 25, he then switched to the belt and alternated with the paddle!! he got in the next 25 for the 50 but still worked back and forth with the belt and paddle and some with the brush, so my behiney got nice and red and stinging like mad!!!! It is still a bit sore this morning, which was his purpose, so it would remind me to get my chores done.... So on that note,Im off to start my chores so they are done by the time he gets home or I will be in BIG trouble and sitting for Easter dinner wont be so much fun..

Not such a week

Well I don't have much to report this week so far, I have been a pretty good girl it doesn't help that I have bronchitis and have been pretty under the weather! I thought it was just my allergies but it worked into something much worse. So I am on antibiotics and an inhaler for 10 days ugggh. So the 9:30 bedtime has not been too bad, I have needed the extra sleep with being sick and all, but I'm sure as the week goes on and I feel better it will probably annoy me more! Hopefully I can make it thru the rest of the week and only have maintenance on the weekend.

Allie : )

Gratitude Tuesday

Brought to you by the letter "C"

C For Cookies something I like to make with my daughter.

C For Christmas a happy magical time of year.

C For Comedy I love to laugh "Here's your sign"

C For Coffee, I just love coffee, I cant start my day without a cup!

C For Caring, something we all need to do more.

C For Coupons, I love to cut them and save money.

C For Calculators I would be lost without mine at work.

C For Cars, it would be awfully hard to get where I'm going without it.

C For Cats our funny feline friends.

C For Cuddles, something I like to give and get.

Well there is my C list... Have a great Gratitude Tuesday

Allie

Manic Monday...

Do you remember that song? Well first of all let me say I am dating myself with that song suggestion! But I loved that song back in the day.

Anyhow, I do have a purpose for it. Alex informed me this morning that since my behavior this last week was less than great, and yes I admit it was not a pretty week ! He had to punish me twice for not being a good girl& that this week was going to be much more strict and that he was going to impose an addition to my day. His addition to my day is that all this week I will have a "bedtime", I have to be in bed by 9:30pm, no tv, no reading, straight to bed. Now that is about an hour earlier than I usually go to bed, but when I do go I usually watch tv or catch up on my reading so going straight off to sleep is going to be a challenge.

So here is my question for the week. Have you ever been assigned a bedtime by your HOH? Was it just a one time thing or did you have to do it for a period of time? What was his reason for it?

Alex says that by putting me on a schedule it will help with my bratty behavior and reinforce that he is in charge. I have had a bit of a problem with that this last week, I was not respecting him as HOH as well as I should have.

Well if you would be so kind to answer my question in the comments it would be great! I would like to hear what other HOH couples think.

Hugs,
Allie